'' Yes, I Do''

love is complicated yet it is beautiful if both compromise and mutually give and take....love may lead to marriage yet it usually takes a lots of time, preparations, energy and understanding. The most important is the ''signal'' which means the agreement from God who permit the marriage of both person.

The question that we always discuss nowadays---- '' is wrong marriage exisit??'' or '' isn't that God will show to people that their marriage is the wrong choice??''. Hmmm.....after many discussions, we all deem that there is no ''wrong'' marriage, but there is '' bad marriage''. It means the marriage may be bad but it's not a false choice to marry him or her. Once you had decided to marry him or her, he/she is your '' Mr/Mrs Right'' not ''Mr/Mrs Wrong'', there is no turning back. Let's say if you and your partner is in arrgument or quarrel , you both need to find out the main causes of problems and sit down to find out the best way to solve and compromise with each other though rather than blaming and complaining. On the other hand, if one side had betrayed another no matter physically or emotion, that may be lead to divorce, but it's still not the '' wrong'' marriage!!!

Marriage is a relationship that both entity link to become one. One has to accept another's everything. It mean the guy or girls have to accept your recent looks, characters, natures and all the good or bad as well as the changes you might have after marriage. Marriage is a very deep knowledge which everyone have their own ways to look at marriage.

Love need to surpass all things. Love cannot be demanded.

Love is not a need of an individual. Love is not a fulfillment to ur soul.

Love is not only involve jz both of you. Love must be independent and free from restriction.

Love cant be found. Love comes in the right time with the right one.

Love is beautiful . Love is sweet. Love is responsible also.

Love is planned by God. So, don't rush to get Love!!!

when you said ''you are ready!!!'' act, you are not!!!!

Say ''I love you when you mean it not when you need it!!!''

Say ''Yes, I Do!!'' in the church without regret and doubt after you had well-prepared to be responsible to people life, think and consider carefully, stand firmly in your decision that you are willing to accompany him/her till the end of life.

''yea....i did learnt a lots a lots from the great chatting with my girl friends.....I know what is true love which may lead to marriage. i was wondering why we always discuss about those stuff when recess or meet each other. It may because we are growing and maturing. Meanwhile, we are protecting ourselves from falling into love or get involve in a relationship too easily. It is because we girls didn't need a puppy love...what we want is a real true love which is fully blessed by God and it will stay till the end of our life. So, we are very careful and precise in falling into love. It is a good thing though. Can't be denied, i can say that guys in my lifegroup is very mature. They did teach us a lots as they protect us from hurt as a brother in christ. I appreciate them a lots. When i am tired or sad....they give a lots of supports and encouragements and hugs....i love you guys!!!''

So, i strongly believed that God purposely put those people in my life to change my point of views to many things. God is really a real one.....everytime when i was down...was disappointed....was doubted...was fear....was alone...He always fulfill my life with ppl and laughters....He always ask me to carry on and on.....He will never let me go......

''when you think that you had lost a lots, actually you had gained a lots and grown a lots!!!''